A Best Friend is there to make our life much easier, happening and amusing. Having a best friend of opposite gender is quite enjoyable as you need not care about certain things. Things which a person with a person with best friend of opposite gender can relate tot
1) The most frequent question. ARE YOU GUYS ENGAGED?
“Oh no! not again. We are just good friends.” It is the most irritating question we come across. Whether we guys hang out in a public place or sit on the same bench in the classroom. Guys just give it a break, you must be having a lot of gossips. But, we aren’t a couple. At the end, it is better not to say anything as you can’t shut up the mouth of everyone and we get used to such comments.
2) YOU LAND UP GETTING A NUMBER OF ADVISES FROM YOUR FRIENDS
Our friends recommend that you both try and make a perfect couple. Relatable right? Whenever you think that you should find a perfect match for yourself, your friends tend to advise you to date your best friend. Maybe they are the only one with whom you love to share your thoughts and problems with. But, you might think that dating them is not your cup of tea.
3)YOU NEED NOT HIDE YOUR STUFF FROM YOUR GIRL/BOY BEST FRIEND.
A beautiful relationship with a bit less of dramatic things happening out. As he/she will not ask to take away your clothes or the other stuff. Another benefit is that he/she cannot try to flirt with your crush. He/she may be the one who will help you out to manage an amazing relationship with your partner.
4) HE/SHE WILL BE THEIR TO PROVIDE YOU A SHOULDER TO CRY ON.
Whenever it is a sorrowful experience he/she would always be there to hold you up. Whether you had a fight with your partner or a family issue is disturbing you, the first person that comes to your mind is your best friend. Unfortunately, even if you had a horrible day he/she may manage to bring up a smile on your face. He/she is never too busy to leave you alone in any situation, they turn out to be a beautiful part of your life. The best secret keeper you can ever have.
5) YOUR PARENTS MAY THINK THAT YOU GUYS ARE ENGAGED.
Blushing while texting, talking for hours on a call with your best friend may develop a doubt in the minds of your parents, they tend to think that you are in a relationship with them, they think that your guy/girl bff play a much influencing role in our lives which creates a sense of negativity in them. This might land you in a trouble.
6) THEY PLAY A VITAL ROLE AND HELP YOU UP TO DEVELOP A LOVE INTEREST.
You can’t even dare to date a person without your best friend’s approval. Your guy/girl bff may be the mastermind behind all the proposals and the gifts you give to your partner. He/she plays an important role in selecting out a gift for your love interest. They stay up with you throughout and no matter how much they are confined to their relationship. But, they spare out time for you.
7) THE BIGGEST PROBLEM: NO NIGHT OUTS.
It isn’t a big deal to go to your friend’s house overnight, talking about the life. Sitting on the terrace and thinking about all the ups and downs faced in life. No matter how much cool do you behave. But, you can’t manage to have a conversation with him/her on the terrace, in the midnight. Maybe the society matters too. The only source to communicate in the midnight is the cell phone.
8) IT CAN LEAD YOUR LOVE LIFE INTO A TROUBLE.
Your partner may not say it directly, but he/she may develop a complex feeling for your guy/ girl bff and the best friend who has always been with throughout out your thick and thin can, unfortunately, be the reason for the destruction of your love life. Maybe in short span, it won’t affect anyone. After getting married or after having a complex relation it might not be possible to have the same intensity of friendship with a person of the opposite gender.