TEENAGE RELATIONSHIPS: A WONDER OR A CURSE?
Teenage is incredibly an overwhelming and adorable phase of a person’s life. In everyone’s life there comes a time when an individual tends to become overburdened with numerous feelings emerging in the mind. The most common one is the teenage relationships.
• HOW DOES A CURIOSITY FOR FOR THE TEENAGE RELATIONSHIPS EMERGE?
As a person starts grows during the developmental stage of the life, a feeling of love arises. It may be just infatuation or a curiosity to attain maturity. Teenage is the time when such feelings emerge in the minds of the youth. A person sometimes begins and confesses his/her feelings, this turns out to be a beginning of a new fondness and a new bond.
• TEENAGE RELATIONSHIPS- A DESTRUCTION?
Being in a relationship during this phase of life is absolutely fine. But, managing and controling your emotions appropriately is essential. Understanding and knowing the difference between a mere attraction and love is important. In a relationship during a teenage phase the behaviour suddenly begins to change. Mood swings, more expectations are the some of the causes of destruction of the youth. Hiding away the relationship stuff with the family is common during this stage. It is another thing which takes the youth towards a destructing path.
• A COMPANION OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER OR A LOVER?
Indeed a person of the opposite gender is essential in the teenage years of an individual. A person of the opposite gender lets out all the craziness embedded in ourselves. That one person becomes a major part of our life. Freely sharing the thoughts, secrets, problems is important during the teenage. A person whose presence makes us feel secure, a bond without any kind of hesitation is required.
IT IS NOT ALWAYS ABOUT LOVE– A boy and a girl can be best friends too. For getting a tag of forever it is not always necessary to have a relationship.
• LOST THE TRACK IN THE CRUEL WORLD? OR IS IT FINE TO HAVE AN ATTRACTION?
It is the phase which either destroys an individual to an extend where he is unable to recover till the future years or this time turns into a blessing for well being and success in future. An attraction, a friendship is actually normal. But, being in a complex relationship during the immature phase of life. Is it normal? Is it taking an individual on the perfect track? For an individual it might be a true and forever love. But, for someone it can be a way to satisfy the lust. It may be a source of fulfillment of greed or a purpose for another individual. The genuine soul suffers out of it.
” 7 BILLION PEOPLE HAVING 14 BILLION FACES” isn’t it?
Teenage is the time when a person starts to fall for an individual. It is turning into a hoax and a temporary thing in the current scenario with a mindset full of lust.
• THE TEENAGE RELATIONSHIPS MAY NOT BE PERMANENT. BUT, IT TEACHES SOME LIFELONG LESSONS.
As mentioned above, being in a relationship by the time you reach the adulthood phase is not wrong. But, a differentiation must be made between the person craving for love or lust. People don’t care about your betterment, it can be a way to satisfy their greed and cunning needs.
The love of family and friends, self belief, confidence, personality and willingness to word hard matters not the attention of a person.
A bad experience teaches some lifelong lessons. It makes a person stronger enough to identify the permanent people and things and hold them forever in the life.
During the teenage phase a thing should be kind in mind:
EDUCATION+ DREAMS+ FAMILY> RELATIONSHIP+ LOVE/LUST
The teenage stage is the appropriate time to decide what is actually important and needs to get a priority. The choice is yours, regarding how to make your life beautiful.
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