Teenage: the developmental stage of a person. This is the most amazing and joy able stage in anyone’s life. Peer pressure, wrong addictions or a bad company. The modern generation of our country is compiled up with numerous problems, misconceptions, and false hopes. Raising up the teens with proper ethics is one of the most difficult tasks for the parents. Teenagers have a lot of negativity about their parents’ opinion. They provide us with their unconditional love. Still, we fail to understand them. Here are some myths in which teenagers survive:
(1) All the people are meant to stay forever.
Numerous people come across our journey. But, is the bond with everyone forever? Some make us happier and make our life easier. Some people give us wounds but, in the end, we all heal up. But, in the end, only a few of them will stay with us and will be there to have a lifelong bond. Many of us fail to realize the harsh truth that nothing is forever. Not even the promises of having a forever bond and not even the best friends are meant to be with us forever. Many a time, we lose our connection with certain people. But, some people never betray and the bond with them stays forever, not in the case of everyone. So, don’t rely on the relations which don’t even have a lifetime guarantee. Rather, create your own happiness and make the best out of each moment you life without craving for anyone else’s presence.
(2) Social media has a wider impact according to the modern generation.
The modern generation is much occupied with the social networking sites. The youth considers the social media platform a better place to express yourself, but the social media has a number of negative consequences. The young generation ends up messing up their life, due to the overuse. It leads to a feelings shattered as there is no face to face interaction. In fact, there is increasing rate of depression among the youth due to the feeling of isolation and loneliness, but to the lack of physical interaction. Though, It is a great medium to express thoughts. But, on the other hand, keeping a perfect check about its impact is also very crucial.
(3) Anonymous Feedback apps: An ultimate fun.
Posting up the link to your Sarah accounts is cool up to a certain extent. It is a great way to express your self at someone’s back without any fear of being caught. The app which serves as a source of fun for the youth is a gateway to the bullies and encourages back bitching for the sake of entertainment. It represents the true opinion of the people about us. But, are we restricted to such sources know about our real picture in front of the world.
(4) Getting A Good score can turn anything up.
Marks is just a number, we have heard this numerous times. But, when it comes to measuring the success rate. In a school or college, the person with a higher score is considered to be more worthy. The modern generation relies more on the marks rather than working on the overall growth, knowledge and developing the skills. A good score provides a couple of opportunities. But, for getting a better exposure and a better work ethics it demands multiple skills in a person. So, a balance needs to be maintained between the score and overall growth. As taking up extra activities also has a couple of benefits.
(5) Being in a club is better than a decent outing.
Clubbing or partying is the best way to make yourself look cool. But, in the urge of transforming yourself into a modern day teen. Many of us tend to forget the ethics embedded in us. The things which the clubs or lounges are exposing us to is something not worthy. Life has a bundle of things to enjoy. The youth of our country despite after much awareness is not able to analyze the damaging effects these alcoholic beverages or the electric smokes consumption is causing them.
6) Being In a relationship will make your life happier.
Thinking that our happiness is restricted to a person who will capture our heart and will make our lives better and lovable. It is not someone’s duty to spread happiness in our life. Many youngsters are looking for a perfect match and the other half is spoiling up their lives just for the sake of one person. In the trend of being in a relationship, the ones who are not able to grab any one’s attention end up being disappointed. One’s happiness is not restricted to someone else’s entrance. We all were born to love ourselves just remember that.